It all comes down to
this then: Whether it is in a place that has been begged, borrowed, or bought
we are all going to eventually lie down and experience the long silence.
Ash Wednesday is upon us, that once a year moment of
reflection when the Christian Church begs us to remember that we will all
eventually die. “Ashes to ashes, dust to dust” as the graveside mantra reminds
us.
I find comfort in the experience of immersing my thumb in
the ashes of last year’s palm branches and swiping a chiasmus on the foreheads
of the faithful. Each year they line up with looks of expectation and penitence
co-mingled as the sacred smudge is administered. Some, afterwards, exhibit
signs of the burdens of life being lifted; a slight straightening of the
shoulders, a decrease in the number of furrows etched in their brows.
These are the high holy moments of worship when a tangible
experience of touch becomes sacrosanct. Our dying is acknowledged and the
possibilities for life remembered.